tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post5783632008085601737..comments2024-03-04T02:10:24.117+08:00Comments on Fickle Cattle: Three StoriesFickle Cattlehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10281753566416281237noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-70768480264311169942011-04-07T14:26:50.322+08:002011-04-07T14:26:50.322+08:00i've met people who generally falls in every c...i've met people who generally falls in every category<br /><br />and it's so pathetic that right now i belong in the 2nd<br /><br />but still doing my best to be in the 1st<br /><br />because i couldn't imagine myself being in the 3rdEwanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13789333502189449446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-43702042077381916922011-03-22T09:28:06.221+08:002011-03-22T09:28:06.221+08:00this really speaks to me i have been story one and...this really speaks to me i have been story one and two and my mum has been story two and possibly story three it must be genetic :P *sigh@#!~@https://www.blogger.com/profile/11287041977273840517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-25657541284645291482011-03-22T03:52:51.405+08:002011-03-22T03:52:51.405+08:00Ohh I like this ^^ Three different perspectives on...Ohh I like this ^^ Three different perspectives on the same thing. kinda reflects how each one of us has such opposing opinioins on life. And cheaters...argh. lol.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-75877576643776120872011-03-11T05:23:32.519+08:002011-03-11T05:23:32.519+08:00Thanks for sharing these different points of view ...Thanks for sharing these different points of view with us. Everyone should do whatever he/she wants until his/her acts doesn't hurt other people.Starlighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12744373842226110455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-66335947481103734742011-03-08T23:43:31.405+08:002011-03-08T23:43:31.405+08:00effing brilliant. that is it. somethings we will j...effing brilliant. that is it. somethings we will just never know and that is okay.Michelle Stileshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08379625803725669947noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-87146079429380595162011-03-08T05:39:13.317+08:002011-03-08T05:39:13.317+08:00nice post! i enjoyed reading it. you're good.nice post! i enjoyed reading it. you're good.Luuworldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14381973200915826236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-28224978131511567112011-03-07T21:45:15.467+08:002011-03-07T21:45:15.467+08:00I was with this guy long distance, we spent a week...I was with this guy long distance, we spent a week together, and he went home across the country. We both knew he wasn't feeling well and he fell off the face of the earth. I had no real way outside of e-mail to contact him. For months I had no word from him, other than him telling me he wanted me to "move on and be happy."...because he was recovering from a mental illness. I refused at first, of course....But after 6, 7 months of no word period, I was miserable and lonely...I assumed the relationship was over; he had broken up with me, essentially. <br /><br />A month later I met a guy by chance...No intention of romance or a connection or anything. And we're engaged now, 5 years later.<br /><br />A week after I started hanging out with this guy, the long distance relationship popped back into my life...I had to tell him I met someone...I was the "cheater"...When I told him he had told me to move on he told me he "really didn't mean it"....He was crushed and I felt terrible. I was the "cheater", because he had told me to move on, and I did....6 months after he told me to do so. I feel like I've been on that other side of cheating, and I feel so badly about it.Jennifer Goodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08567885257853378953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-47009589174564232002011-03-07T07:49:57.295+08:002011-03-07T07:49:57.295+08:00Bravo. I have heard these stories myself!Bravo. I have heard these stories myself!Unspokenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16065870952905767595noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-68698715017680821972011-03-06T05:42:44.957+08:002011-03-06T05:42:44.957+08:00makes you think eh?makes you think eh?John Going Gentlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14958171262765033946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-31955632213093535382011-03-05T22:00:27.890+08:002011-03-05T22:00:27.890+08:00“I feel hurt a lot of times, especially when I don...“I feel hurt a lot of times, especially when I don’t know where he is, or why he isn’t texting, or when he says he’s out with friends.."<br /><br />I wonder if it wouldn't hurt if I know where he is, or he texts and says he can't text yet, or says honestly that he's out on a date....eonhttp://daredevilry.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-17540440035975205732011-03-05T15:17:33.627+08:002011-03-05T15:17:33.627+08:00Wow. Very interesting. I always know I've read...Wow. Very interesting. I always know I've read good writing when the writing seems effortless and natural, and this post was effortless writing. Easy for me to read. Awesome. I'm glad I found you.Amanda G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/17582572244367076956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-67204668916115554982011-03-05T02:08:47.286+08:002011-03-05T02:08:47.286+08:00Hi there, Fickle Cattle-- this post is beautifully...Hi there, Fickle Cattle-- this post is beautifully heartbreaking. Thank you for swinging by my little blog!KillerBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08479521297828160445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-89247705294609545852011-03-04T23:25:33.582+08:002011-03-04T23:25:33.582+08:00Three very real and very different reactions indee...Three very real and very different reactions indeed. It is interesting that one person could have all of those scenarios at different times.<br /><br />Have a lovely weekend dear!<br /><a href="http://chicncheapliving.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Chic 'n Cheap Living</a>little luxury listhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17630812969476483227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-53711845934608457462011-03-04T20:46:45.415+08:002011-03-04T20:46:45.415+08:00Thanks for reading my blog. It means a lot to me.
...Thanks for reading my blog. It means a lot to me.<br />Relationships are so varied. As far as I am concerned even thinking about someone else is cheating. Some men think that it is manly to show desire of sleeping with several gals but do not do anything as they care for their wives. Some cheat and some expressly go out with other women (in my faith men are allowed to have four wives but again women are allowed to leave them too).Most of the time people do not pracise polygomy as it is hard even to keep up with one spouse. If any one brings up the subject I simply tell them that they can do whatever they want to but they will have to deal with the consequences. My parents taught me to weed out unpleasant and un fair stuff from my beleif as there is no compusion in faith. So coming back to the subject I agree with RS Women cheat as well and it is just as ugly.MunirGhiasuddinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05232362559666320301noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-45927436548210856362011-03-04T20:28:50.466+08:002011-03-04T20:28:50.466+08:00hey fickle cattle!
thanks for visiting my my blog...hey fickle cattle!<br /><br />thanks for visiting my <a href="http://www.riskofrain.com" rel="nofollow">my blog</a><br />no idea how you found it but thanks for taking the time to drop a comment.<br /><br />this post... got me sad. =/ this whole idea of 'cheating' is so alien to me. Although I truly understand why some may opt to cheat, I think it's always better to be 'a man' and just deal with your problems.<br /><br />Wait, that's a horrible example since men cheat, don't they? =p ah, how sexist of me. women are equally as bad! in all seriousness, honesty is the best policy.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.riskofrain.com" rel="nofollow">www.riskofrain.com</a>RShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00785298637011322364noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-47914048413454915802011-03-04T20:23:05.883+08:002011-03-04T20:23:05.883+08:00I responded but my response was so long I had to w...I responded but my response was so long I had to write in three separate comments. I think I'm too lazy to copy paste in here ... (sorry)Leilahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04490635107983302531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-59402390638883303022011-03-04T14:26:28.772+08:002011-03-04T14:26:28.772+08:00I had a crush on a girl of the second type. Took m...I had a crush on a girl of the second type. Took me a year to realize she'll never truly see how she's fooling herself, she kept saying how she was going to marry him.<br /><br />I respect the first and third type. Not cause i hold a grudge against the other girl but cause at least they know what exactly they want from life.<br /><br />thanks for visiting my site and commenting btw.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-34632517809314458592011-03-04T12:35:31.315+08:002011-03-04T12:35:31.315+08:00Your style of writing is so enthralling. I found m...Your style of writing is so enthralling. I found myself clicking through many of your blogposts. I also really like the exchange of dialogue throughout this post. Dialogue is something that I'm still working on.<br /><br />p.s. thanks for visiting my blog and commenting. :)dr3am3rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13180061943340517074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-13284771611103884752011-03-04T07:32:28.972+08:002011-03-04T07:32:28.972+08:00Those are three very different points of view...as...Those are three very different points of view...as it says, whatever works for you, I guess...caterpillarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16929070939893449116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-1477342805245291402011-03-04T04:46:12.505+08:002011-03-04T04:46:12.505+08:00Ahhhhh definitely enjoyed this man. I remember my ...Ahhhhh definitely enjoyed this man. I remember my neo-childish days when I found myself in pseudo relationships, but someone a bit more attractive would arrest my senses and there I was wandering and leaving the one I was supposed to 'be with.' *sighs* those were the says...or so I thought. Thanks for commenting on my piece earlier...stay in touch. ~bloodspeaksSabah Van Goghhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13794335969570677633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-57029680344790899642011-03-04T04:02:15.416+08:002011-03-04T04:02:15.416+08:00i would rather be "dumper" then cheated ...i would rather be "dumper" then cheated on, although it has never happened to me, hopefully never will but what goes around comes back aroundblogger samhttp://www.bloggingsam.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-75072065105751574082011-03-04T03:28:26.770+08:002011-03-04T03:28:26.770+08:00Wow, I have been the Cheater when I was younger (h...Wow, I have been the Cheater when I was younger (http://normaltoeatpb.blogspot.com/2011/02/cheater.html), now I am mature enough to face my relationship problems instead of bedding other men.NormalToEatPBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15441013159223880977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-59509407531725323152011-03-04T03:09:19.631+08:002011-03-04T03:09:19.631+08:00nicenicezezoohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02465205967525242392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-64445346899205360712011-03-04T01:38:07.904+08:002011-03-04T01:38:07.904+08:00Ahhh... the cheaters. Before meeting my current hu...Ahhh... the cheaters. Before meeting my current husband, I was somewhere in the middle of category 1 and 3. I knew there were other girls in Ex's life, he never really denied it, but at the end of the day he always came back to me, so I figured he would out grow it. Until he left for bootcamp, knocked up a stripper, and broke my heart.Kelli Halehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09312335836590750657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9191137758823613303.post-42583293663852658512011-03-04T01:08:13.403+08:002011-03-04T01:08:13.403+08:00nicely done, three point perspective - I am going ...nicely done, three point perspective - I am going to try this out as an exercise.Jhon Bakerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05952691262605706711noreply@blogger.com